Current:Home > reviewsA US veteran died at a nursing home, abandoned. Hundreds of strangers came to say goodbye -EquityZone
A US veteran died at a nursing home, abandoned. Hundreds of strangers came to say goodbye
View
Date:2025-04-13 13:10:48
AUGUSTA, Maine (AP) — Former U.S. Marine Gerry Brooks died alone at a nursing home in Maine, abandoned and all but forgotten. Then the funeral home posted a notice asking if anyone would serve as a pallbearer or simply attend his burial.
Within minutes, it was turning away volunteers to carry his casket.
A bagpiper came forward to play at the service. A pilot offered to perform a flyover. Military groups across the state pledged a proper sendoff.
Hundreds of people who knew nothing about the 86-year-old beyond his name showed up on a sweltering afternoon and gave Brooks a final salute with full military honors Thursday at the Maine Veterans’ Memorial Cemetery in Augusta.
Patriot Guard Riders on motorcycles escorted his hearse on the 40-mile route from the funeral home in Belfast, Maine, to the cemetery. Members of the Veterans of Foreign Wars paid tribute with a 21-gun salute. Volunteers held American flags alongside the casket while a crane hoisted a huge flag above the cemetery entrance.
“It’s an honor for us to be able to do this,” said Jim Roberts, commander of the VFW post in Belfast. “There’s so much negativity in the world. This is something people can feel good about and rally around. It’s just absolutely wonderful.”
He said the VFW is called a couple times a year about a deceased veteran with no family or with one that isn’t willing to handle the funeral arrangements. But “we will always be there.” Like other veterans helping out Thursday, he hadn’t known Brooks.
So many groups volunteered to take part in paying tribute that there wasn’t enough space to fit them into the 20-minute burial service, said Katie Riposta, the funeral director who put out the call for help last week.
“It renews your faith in humanity,” she said.
More than 8 million of the U.S. veterans living are 65 or older, almost half the veteran population. They are overwhelmingly men. That’s according to a U.S. Census Bureau report last year. As this generation dies, it said, their collective memory of wartime experiences “will pass into history.”
Much about Brooks’ life is unknown.
He was widowed and had lived in Augusta before he died on May 18, less than a week after entering a nursing home, Riposta said. A cause of death was not released.
The funeral home and authorities were able to reach his next of kin, but no one was willing to come forward or take responsibility for his body, she said.
“It sounds like he was a good person, but I know nothing about his life,” Riposta said, noting that after Brooks’ death, a woman contacted the funeral home to say he had once taken her in when she had no other place to go, with no details.
“It doesn’t matter if he served one day or made the military his career,” she said. “He still deserves to be respected and not alone.”
The memorial book posted online by Direct Cremation of Maine, which helped to arrange the burial, offered no clues. An hour before his funeral, three people had signed it. It seemed they hadn’t met him, either.
“Sir,” one began, and ended with “Semper Fi.”
The two others, a couple, thanked Brooks for his service. “We all deserve the love kindness and respect when we are called home. I hope that you lived a full beautiful life of Love, Kindness, Dreams and Hope,” they wrote.
They added: “Thank you to all those who will make this gentleman’s service a proper, well deserved good bye.”
Linda Laweryson, who served in the Marines, said this will be the second funeral in little over a year that she has attended for a veteran who died alone. Everyone deserves to die with dignity and be buried with dignity, she said.
Lawyerson said she planned to read a poem during the graveside service written by a combat Marine who reflects on the spot where Marines graduate from boot camp.
“I walked the old parade ground, but I was not alone,” the poem reads. “I walked the old parade ground and knew that I was home.”
___
Seewer reported from Toledo, Ohio.
veryGood! (812)
Related
- Alex Murdaugh’s murder appeal cites biased clerk and prejudicial evidence
- What we know about the plane crash that reportedly killed Russian Wagner chief Prigozhin and 9 others
- Why This Mercury Retrograde in Virgo Season Isn't So Bad
- Olivia Rodrigo Says She Dated People She Shouldn't Have After the Release of Debut Album Sour
- Buckingham Palace staff under investigation for 'bar brawl'
- 'Riverdale' fans slam 'quad' relationship featuring Archie Andrews and Jughead in series finale
- Carlos Santana apologizes for 'insensitive' anti-trans remarks during recent show
- Russia’s Wagner mercenaries face uncertainty after the presumed death of its leader in a plane crash
- Justice Department, Louisville reach deal after probe prompted by Breonna Taylor killing
- Mississippi factory rolls out first electric-powered truck from California-based company
Ranking
- Person accused of accosting Rep. Nancy Mace at Capitol pleads not guilty to assault charge
- Mark Ronson on how RuPaul inspired his business cards
- College football Week 0 games ranked: Notre Dame, Southern California highlight schedule
- ECB’s Lagarde says interest rates to stay high as long as needed to defeat inflation
- See you latte: Starbucks plans to cut 30% of its menu
- Fed Chair Jerome Powell warns the fight against inflation is far from over
- Yevgeny Prigozhin, Wagner chief purportedly killed in plane crash, a man of complicated fate, Putin says
- Maui County releases names of 388 people unaccounted for since the devastating wildfires
Recommendation
South Korean president's party divided over defiant martial law speech
Giannis says he won't sign an extension until he sees a title commitment from Bucks
Beloved wild horses that roam Theodore Roosevelt National Park may be removed. Many oppose the plan
Why This Mercury Retrograde in Virgo Season Isn't So Bad
Apple iOS 18.2: What to know about top features, including Genmoji, AI updates
Want no caller ID? Here's how to call private without using Star 67.
Scammers impersonate bank employees to steal nearly $2M from Pennsylvania customers, officials say
Carlos Santana apologizes for 'insensitive' anti-trans remarks during recent show